I spent several weeks working on an in-depth article for Discovering Dad called "20 Kinds of Dads - Which One Are You?" Thought I'd share a bit of it here with you as well:

"In thinking about all of the dads I've known throughout my life, I came up with a list of 20 Kinds of Dads. Most dads are multifaceted, but they tend have 1 or 2 dominant themes based on personality, strengths and circumstance.

Here's the list of 20 Kinds of Dads:

1. The Provider - this is the stereotypical role of a father. The one who works to support his family, so that mom can focus on taking care of the kids and home. You gain satisfaction by providing for the needs, wants and financial security of your family. You work hard for yourself and others, and your primary role is that of a worker. You are involved with the kids when work permits; however, you also tend to feel like you've 'earned' the right to do things for yourself, like golf, gamble or go out with friends. You like to spend time with family, but their schedule revolves around yours.




2. The Figurehead - you are the primary decision-maker of all 'big' things regarding your family. Your position is one of authority, and the kids are often kept at arms length because it's easier to control them that way. You love your children and they love you; however, if they need support or attention, then they go to mom, a sibling or the nanny. You are the head-of-household and leader of the clan. It is your job to set direction and keep the family moving forward, according to goals and objectives.




3. The SAHD (Stay at Home Dad) - you are the primary parent in charge of taking care of the kids. Your wife or partner works outside of the home, and your family does not have anything more than part-time daycare. It is your job to manage the day-to-day activities of the kids, and you are responsible for their growth and development. You take care of the house, chores and errands. Part of your job is make sure that things are taken care of at home, so that mom can spend time with the kids (and give you a break) when she's not working."

The article includes 17 more kinds of dads, so if you feel like checking it out and leaving a comment I'd love to know what kind of dad you are (or are striving to become). Here's the URL: http://discoveringdad.blogspot.com/2008/03/20-kinds-of-dads-which-one-are-you.html

Hope you like it!